Woman Refuses to Add Boyfriend's Child to Her Insurance 🤯 Is She in the Wrong?

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Imagine being in a relationship where your partner's ex-spouse is causing constant problems, and you're not even allowed to speak to their child. Now, imagine that same ex-spouse demanding that you add their child to your health insurance. Sounds like a recipe for drama, right? 😬 That's exactly the situation one woman found herself in, and she's turned to the internet for advice on whether or not she's in the wrong for refusing to add her boyfriend's child to her insurance. Let's dive into the story and see what's going on! 🍿

The 4-Year Relationship 💑

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The Troublesome Ex-Wife 😒

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No Contact with the Child 🚫

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The Son's Silence 😶

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Divorce Decree and Health Insurance 📜

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Adding Boyfriend to Her Insurance 💏

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Refusing to Add the Child 🚸

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Reason Number Two 🤷‍♀️

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Ex-Wife's Refusal 🙅‍♀️

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The Dilemma 🤔

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Ex-Wife's Accusation 😡

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Caught in the Middle of a Family Drama 🎭

So here's the situation: our protagonist has been with her boyfriend for four years, and his ex-wife has been a constant source of trouble. She's not allowed to have any contact with her boyfriend's 12-year-old son, and the ex-wife is demanding that she add the child to her health insurance. However, the woman refuses for two reasons: it's expensive, and the ex-wife won't allow them to reduce child support payments. The boyfriend supports her decision, but the ex-wife accuses her of being an a**hole for not supporting her son. 🤯 Let's see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation... 💬

NTA! 🙅‍♀️ Don't make a side deal with her, she has no justification.

Prize-Bumblebee-2192 | Prize-Bumblebee-2192

User advises OP to reconsider relationship, votes ESH. 🤯

trixen2020 | trixen2020

Don't pay for his child support. Keep your money separate. 💰

SensibleFriend | SensibleFriend

NTA commenter advises against dating a man with messy situation 🤯

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Former single mother advises woman to leave disrespectful boyfriend.

cathline | cathline

NTA, but run 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️. BF tolerates kid not speaking to you 😬

NegotiationOk5036 | NegotiationOk5036

User suggests OP needs to co-parent boyfriend's child, ESH.

Symnet | Symnet

Mental health issues and insurance create a toxic family dynamic 😢 ESH

bwhite170 | bwhite170

User calls out woman for being taken advantage of 🤦‍♀️

LowerSquash6084 | LowerSquash6084

Refusing insurance for boyfriend's child: YTA according to commenters 🤯

MazzIsNoMore | MazzIsNoMore

NTA for insurance, but what's the deal with child support? 🤔

Ravenkelly | Ravenkelly

User defends OP's decision not to add BF's child to insurance.

Aloreiusdanen | Aloreiusdanen

Insurance expert explains limitations of adding partner's child. 👍

Survive1014 | Survive1014

🧁 Don't be a know-it-all, CUPCAKE. No one likes that.

james2020chris | james2020chris

Stick to court orders: Commenter warns of vindictive ex-girlfriend 🤯

lm-thinking | lm-thinking

Drama unfolds as OP insults commenters, resulting in ESH verdict

Regular-Switch454 | Regular-Switch454

Partner should address alienation in court. ESH. 😢

annang | annang

Don't mess with court orders, NTA made the right call 👍

TangledUpPuppeteer | TangledUpPuppeteer

NTA. Relationship status matters in financial affairs. 💍

A_Roachimaru | A_Roachimaru

NTA for insurance, but commenters call out boyfriend's behavior 🤯

Intelligent_You_2803 | Intelligent_You_2803

NTA. Practical and legal considerations justify woman's decision not to add boyfriend's child to insurance.

Federal_Ferret7672 | Federal_Ferret7672

Ignoring boyfriend's child for insurance? 🤔 Not a good look.

carlitospig | carlitospig

NTA commenter advises against adding boyfriend's child to insurance.

stokedd00d | stokedd00d

User advises against adding boyfriend's child to insurance. 👍

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Don't mess with court orders, NTA for not adding child 🚫

santtu_ | santtu_

User says girlfriend should take responsibility for her child's insurance 💭

mcmurrml | mcmurrml

NTA. Adding boyfriend's child to insurance can open a can of worms 🤯

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It's not her responsibility to provide insurance for her boyfriend's child 🙅

Queasy-Original-1629 | Queasy-Original-1629

A poignant reminder to prioritize a child's well-being ❤️

gfen5446 | gfen5446

A blunt and humorous comment with no replies.

Inefficientfrog | Inefficientfrog

Defending the OP while calling out the commenters - 🤔👀

giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy

User questions the dynamics of the relationship. 🤔

NightsofWren | NightsofWren

Boundaries matter. 🙅‍♀️

sunshinewynter | sunshinewynter

Keep finances separate and follow court order to avoid trouble later 💰

zanne54 | zanne54

Don't do it! NTA. You could be financially responsible 🤯

Interesting-Long-534 | Interesting-Long-534

Woman refuses to add boyfriend's child to insurance. NTA.

CrazyCatLady1127 | CrazyCatLady1127

NTA for refusing to add boyfriend's child to insurance 🤯

listentomenow | listentomenow

User suggests leaving toxic relationship due to potential abuse. 👍

bishopredline | bishopredline

Get it in writing! NTA for not adding boyfriend's child.

Andravisia | Andravisia

Heartbreaking situation for a child, messy AF for adults 💔

krispin08 | krispin08

Legality of adding non-dependent child to insurance questioned. NTA.

Fit-Delay3654 | Fit-Delay3654

Adding boyfriend's child to insurance led to financial nightmare 💥

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Red flags raised as woman forbidden from talking to child 🤯

Karlie62 | Karlie62

Boyfriend's child not allowed to speak to partner of 4 years 🤯

JonBenet_BeanieBaby | JonBenet_BeanieBaby

NTA. Commenter questions why woman should pay for child's insurance.


Building a relationship with the child is important. NTA 👍

bluefrost30 | bluefrost30

NTA doesn't trust girlfriend and predicts insurance drama 😕

Mycroft_xxx | Mycroft_xxx

Adding a stranger to health plan? Boyfriend's ex needs to fluff off 👍

ProtozoaPatriot | ProtozoaPatriot

Woman not obligated to add boyfriend's child to insurance policy. NTA! 👍

ZeroZipZilchNadaNone | ZeroZipZilchNadaNone

Curious about the ex's sudden request for insurance coverage 🤔

celticmusebooks | celticmusebooks

Confusion over insurance and child support in relationship drama 🤔

Agreeable-Peanut-457 | Agreeable-Peanut-457

NTA. Practical advice with a hint of skepticism about marriage.

Whattheheckingheck9 | Whattheheckingheck9

User advises against adding boyfriend's child to insurance, cites red flags 🚨

Full_Concentrate5650 | Full_Concentrate5650

User defends narrator's decision to not add partner's child to insurance.

DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth

Partner's son causing issues, commenter advises rethinking marriage. NTA

Dry-Clock-1470 | Dry-Clock-1470

NTA. Refusing to add boyfriend's child to insurance is understandable.

SolitaryMarmot | SolitaryMarmot

Promised to return child support money, but never gonna happen 🤯

z-eldapin | z-eldapin

NTA refuses to add boyfriend's child to insurance, questions baby mama's contribution 💰

Save_FerrisB | Save_FerrisB

Consider potential consequences before adding child to insurance 💭

Traditional_Air_9483 | Traditional_Air_9483

NTA. Don't let her take advantage of you. 👍

worthy_usable | worthy_usable

User advises OP to consider the toxic environment and prioritize herself ❤️

Upper_Book_4235 | Upper_Book_4235

12-year-old drama, rude boyfriend, and insurance woes. NTA.

Agreeable-Customer84 | Agreeable-Customer84

Court orders don't require insurance coverage, NTA. Stand your ground! 💪

luhlar | luhlar

Trust your gut, don't add the child. NTA 👍

DifficultyNo3093 | DifficultyNo3093

User calls out all parties for failing the child 👨🏻‍💻 in a toxic situation 🤯 ESH

CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820

Sensible advice for boyfriend's insurance dilemma 👍

Aggravating-Common90 | Aggravating-Common90

Adding an ex to insurance? No way. Adding boyfriend's child? Also no.

tellmesomething11 | tellmesomething11

Mind your own business, NTA says to insurance busybody 🙅

TarzanKitty | TarzanKitty

Addressing the child's medical needs should be the priority 👍

Darktyde | Darktyde

User defends legal agreement, criticizes girlfriend and boyfriend's parenting skills 💥

maggersrose | maggersrose

NTA stands firm on insurance coverage despite toxic relationship 🤯

Ok_Most_283 | Ok_Most_283

Woman refuses to add boyfriend's child to her insurance, NTA.

lisasimpsonfan | lisasimpsonfan

NTA refuses to add boyfriend's child to insurance. Financial risk outweighs benefit.

Starsonthars | Starsonthars

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