Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our expectant couple: a former model mom-to-be and her worried hubby. ???? This isn’t your typical fairytale, though. The wife’s modeling past has left her with some serious baggage when it comes to her body image. Now, with a baby on the way, her husband is desperate to get her to gain weight for the sake of their little one. But his words may have crossed a line… Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, drama, and some tough love!
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Pregnancy Pandemonium: Can This Couple Overcome Their Weighty Issues?
Our former model mama-to-be is struggling to gain the recommended weight for her pregnancy, and her hubby is at his wit’s end. He’s tried everything from cooking her fave dishes to suggesting therapy, but nothing seems to work. In a moment of frustration, he dropped the ‘s’ word: selfish! Ouch, that’s gotta sting. But is he wrong for being so blunt? The internet is about to weigh in on this one, and we’ve got the juiciest responses coming up next! Get ready for some serious drama, folks!
Pregnancy is crucial. NTA’s wife needs help for baby’s sake

User asks for more information and offers analogy for communication.

Wife has mental health issues, needs therapy for body image.

ESH for husband’s insensitive comments and wife’s poor eating habits.

Suggests calmly bringing up medical articles about pregnancy and nutrition

Pregnant wife accused of eating disorder, YTA without professional opinion.

Insensitive comment triggers deeper issues with disordered eating

Advice for a husband worried about his pregnant wife’s weight.

Calling his wife selfish for not gaining weight? YTA for sure

Insensitive husband shames wife’s weight during pregnancy
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A commenter calls out husband’s behavior and educates on pregnancy weight gain.

Supportive comment suggests helping pregnant wife instead of criticizing her choices

Survivor of eating disorder calls out husband for insulting wife’s weight

Is his obsession with her weight affecting her confidence?

A pregnant woman opens up about her struggles with gaining weight, and calls out the husband for not discussing his concerns with her before calling her selfish. #NTA #PregnancyStruggles
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User questions husband’s claim, suggests seeking medical advice instead.

Insensitive husband shames pregnant wife, called out for being AH

Pregnant wife needs to gain weight, but not all at once. YTA.

Inquiring about wife’s intentions for weight gain during pregnancy.

Apologize to your wife for being insensitive and offer support.

The fear of body changes during pregnancy and its impact

Don’t call the mother of your child selfish. #SupportHerJourney

Calling someone selfish and diagnosing an eating disorder is harsh

Caring for her health is important, but calling her selfish isn’t helpful

Pregnancy advice given with a side of YTA judgment

Pregnancy weight gain not always necessary. YTA for ignoring facts. ?♀?

Dealing with morning sickness and weight loss during pregnancy

ESH husband calls wife selfish for not gaining weight

Pregnancy is tough. YTA for calling her selfish for not gaining weight.
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Thin-shaming during pregnancy is harmful too. YTA for judging.

Insensitive husband shames pregnant wife, called out for lack of support ?♀?
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Acknowledging the seriousness, suggest a possible underlying issue with empathy.

Pregnant woman shares her traumatic experience with weight obsession. NTA.

Fat shaming doesn’t work. Thin shaming won’t either. YTA.
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Calling your pregnant wife “selfish” is never the right approach. YTA.

User explains how husband’s behavior could be harmful, offers helpful tips

Pregnancy can affect body image. Be understanding and talk to doctor.

Pregnant wife refuses to gain weight, NTA calls out risk.
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Communication is key when planning for a baby. ESH

Pregnancy weight gain misconception debunked with personal experience

Gentle YTA – Don’t guilt trip your pregnant wife into tears

Pregnant women may have eating difficulties, be kind and understanding ??

Calling a pregnant woman with an eating disorder selfish? YTA

ESH commenter advocates for civil communication in weight gain argument.

Healthy pregnancy with minimal weight gain, info from experience.

First trimester struggles with weight gain, common or concerning? ?♀?

Pregnant wife’s weight loss due to first trimester is natural. Let her be, don’t call her selfish.

User defends pregnant woman’s weight gain, advises seeking doctor’s opinion.

Pregnancy is difficult, be kind and supportive. YTA

Pregnancy weight gain: valid concern or selfish request?

User calls out husband for being insensitive towards wife’s health concerns.
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Suggests seeking medical advice for possible eating disorder. ?

Prenatal vitamins provide for baby’s needs, therapist or smoothies suggested.

Being concerned is good, but being cruel isn’t. Soft YTA

Pregnancy struggles and modeling issues may affect weight gain. ?♀?

Pregnant woman struggles with weight gain, needs therapy for support.

YTA for not understanding how to deal with eating disorders.

Suggests seeking eating disorder specialized therapy for wife. Be patient

Pregnancy can be tough, let’s not judge too harshly.

Debating whether OP (Original Poster) is the a****e for calling wife selfish

Understanding the root of the issue is key.

NTA defends pregnant model’s perspective on weight in pregnancy.
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Cravings and nausea during pregnancy can affect weight gain.

Supportive comment acknowledges concerns, advises kinder approach for EDs.
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Suggests nutrient-dense foods and shakes to tackle weight issue together.

Supportive reply to anxious husband, highlighting wife’s struggles and health concerns

Supportive comment offers advice for pregnant woman with eating disorder

NAH, husband’s concern needs better communication with obstetrician.

Pregnancy weight gain varies and some women can’t eat. NAH

Support and love your wife during her pregnancy journey ??

Questioning the accuracy of calorie counting claims
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Pregnant woman’s weight gain is not a measure of concern . Husband’s accusations are mean.

Pregnancy weight gain isn’t always controllable, YTA for calling her selfish

Supportive comment advocates for proper nutrition during pregnancy.

Calling her selfish was cruel. She has an eating disorder. Offer support, not criticism.

User thinks husband is TA for calling wife selfish

Pregnancy weight gain: Only 20-30 pounds healthy. YTA called out!

Concerns raised about husband’s lack of support for wife’s health.

User suggests therapy for husband after calling pregnant wife ‘selfish’

NAH. Wife needs therapy and dietician support for eating disorder.

Healthy diet vs. weight gain during pregnancy debate.

Engage in a conversation and understand before judging!

Pregnancy is tough and OP needs to back off. YTA.

Defending pregnant wife against husband’s unrealistic expectations.

Communication is key! YTA for attacking your wife’s character

Advice on supporting pregnant wife’s weight gain with empathy ?

Former fashion model wife needs therapy for eating disorder. NTA.
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Healthy pregnancy requires healthy weight gain. NTA.

Last Updated on April 12, 2024 by Diply Social Team